Personal transformation is a private journey that requires your full commitment.
It is one that doesn’t come with parades and ribbons for how well you’re doing.
It’s an endeavor that you don’t get attention for.
You don’t get validation. You don’t get praise.
The transformation in and of itself must be enough.
If you want to be a loving stable presence in the world it’s up to you to create the internal structures so you don’t collapse in the face of intensity.
Take the positive reinforcement you’re getting from reality and use it to overwrite the negative conditioning.
Otherwise you’ll fall asleep at the wheel every time life starts getting hard.
YOU have to find the motivation.
YOU have to create the incentive.
You can’t wait for somebody to do it for you.
You can’t wait for somebody to teach you.
The best you can do is spend time with somebody who knows how to do it so you can learn by osmosis.
But when it comes down to it, it’s on YOU.
No one else.
You have to figure it out on your own.
That is your job when it comes to creating reality.
Creating reality has NOTHING to do with what you do out there.
It’s how you create your internal structures and the stability that they provide in the face of life’s ever changing circumstances.
That is the creation you have.
That is the gift you have to offer the world.